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I have become unable to control my panic attacks. I can’t tell when they’ll start like I could last year and over the summer, nor can I stop them. My anxiety levels shoot through the roof very easily and it takes a lot of effort for me to bring them back to normal, wherever that may be now.
When we had sectionals today, one of the basses (who wants my spot on top bass) kept playing my part during reps and it was stressing me out. It wasn’t helping me control time or make my part better. It made me play so much worse, and it made me panic. I’m pretty sure he could feel my waves of tension because he stopped.
A fifth Clemson student has passed away (whether from natural causes or stupidity) since school started a month ago. The guy that died yesterday was in symphonic band with me. I didn’t know him extremely personally, but he was a very nice guy and would talk to me during practices (he played trumpet). He fell off an upper deck on a cruise ship and had fatal head trauma. Dr. Spede gave us this big speech on how life is precious and how we need to be careful, etc. He said that he’d been numb all day since he heard the news, and it made me realize that I felt the same.
I wanted to cry all day today but I couldn’t because I was on campus and I didn’t have anywhere comfortable to sit and let it out. We’re playing a really slow, beautiful, flowing piece in symphonic that I don’t play on. When the first few vibe chords started playing ringing I had to leave because I was crying having a panic attack. It wasn’t intense or long, but it was hard for me to get out of it. It wasn’t what I’m used to. For the rest of symphonic I was antsy and fight-or-flight driven. My stomach was in a knot and I wanted to keep crying.
It was the first time I’ve considered getting help because of how bad things have become. And I don’t mean “my life is so terrible and I have so many problems,” either, because my life isn’t bad at all. I’ve lost control of the worry, the stress, the panic, the anxiety. I feel it’s starting to become my daily focus and it scares me because I’m not doing it intentionally. My dad tried to tell me how I’m not in this alone, and that I’m like him and stress is the number one thing that causes me to get sick or have any problems, and it’s so true it hurts.
I need help getting control back. I knew how to get myself out of panic attacks last year (sortof), but now it’s become a lost cause. They’ve happened more frequently than I realized.

1 day ago / 30-9 / 2 notes
deadinmagazines:


The Forest Spirit, god of life and death

Shishi Gami!

deadinmagazines:

The Forest Spirit, god of life and death

Shishi Gami!

“Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.”
— Robert Brault  (via inathens)

I AM SO UNBELIEVABLY FRUSTRATED WITH MY GODDAMN ROOMMATE AND I DON’T EVEN KNOW WHERE TO START

2 days ago / 29-9 / 0 notes
“Write her a letter, send her a flower, love only gets old if you let it.”
— (via witcheszbrew)
“Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish, it makes you indestructible.”
— Things I’ll teach my children (via infl4ted)

While PCB was fun and it was nice to have a beach trip, now I’m laying in my apartment alone feeling the loneliest I’ve felt in weeks. I had a panic attack after I dropped Sean off at his apartment, because I’m friendless here besides him. It terrifies me.

1 week ago / 21-9 / 0 notes
“If we wait until we’re ready, we’ll be waiting for the rest of our lives.”
Lemony Snicket 
(via godmoves)
“Focus on what makes you happy, and do what gives meaning to your life.”
Barry Schwartz (via psych-facts)

I’m making brownies for the drumline (this is the first time I’ve made brownies for people other than myself in over four years), and I have to say that I’ve missed it.
I hope they like them.

1 week ago / 18-9 / 2 notes
beeinherbonnet:

“The probability of separate worlds meeting is very small. The lure of it is immense. We send starships. We fall in love.”  
- Jeanette Winterson

beeinherbonnet:

“The probability of separate worlds meeting is very small. The lure of it is immense. We send starships. We fall in love.”  

- Jeanette Winterson

Listening to the Pirates of the Caribbean On Stranger Tides soundtrack is keeping me alive through my German studying right now.
I’m so close to putting my head down and falling asleep. My vision’s starting to get blurry, which means I can’t focus my eyes well enough on words and I’m super tired.
Ich habe müde.

2 weeks ago / 16-9 / 2 notes